Happy Anniversary!!

I was honored to attend a party last night in honor of a couple married for 70 years. That's right SEVENTY years.

It was a lovely event, catered by family and friends celebrating the diamond anniversary of a really fun couple. Three generations (possibly more) all shared in the planning and showed up to fete the guests of honor.

The venue was perfect and the music was ethnic and fun. Dancing kicked off by the honorees went late into the night. We made new friends, chatted with old friends and admired the married couple's fortitude all night long.

DH and I have been married for 31 years. Last night is the first time I ever thought of that as 'short term'. Time is certainly relative. My parents are on their 68th year of marriage. We threw them a bang up 50th for their golden anniversary. The whole family came and we pulled out all the stops.

Some events are meant to be celebrated. Some sacraments require private witness and public acceptance. Anniversaries are celebrations that are landmarks in any family's history. Last night was no exception. History was made for that family.

Everyone wore their party clothes. I like to call it 'glammed up'. There were long gowns, glittery jewelry and all the men wore suits and ties. The hall was filled with the smell of lamb, curry and yummy rice dishes. All of the exotic flavors and sounds were transcended by the common experience though--everyone was there to celebrate this union. These two people made it. Through wars, evacuations, raising children, illness, tragedy and happiness. Their bond remained strong.

Their love is a testament to all of us. Life is full of obstacles. You cling together and overcome. No one said it would be easy.

--Sandee Wagner